Ice Breaker

Who do you want to win the NBA Finals: Golden State Warriors, Cleveland Cavaliers, or it doesn't matter to you?


The purpose of this lesson is to learn what happens when we allow offense into out hearts and how we can overcome it. 

Main Scripture

Matthew 24:10 BRG And then shall many be offended, and shall betray one another, and shall hate one another.


Today we are talking about a heavy topic: offense. It's important that we talk about this issue because our lives will be significantly impacted by it. Not only are our lives here on Earth impacted by it, but hating others has a major impact on where we spend eternity after we die. 

Q1 - Do you agree with the scripture that many have experienced offense, betrayal, and hate one another?

Q2 - According to your answer to the last question, do you think there is a major need in the church to deal with offense?

3 consequences of offense 

#1 - The offense will become a spiritual cancer and only become worse

 Matthew 24:13 NLT Sin will be rampant everywhere, and the love of many will grow cold. 13 But the one who endures to the end will be saved.

Q3 - How dangerous is it to suppress offense when it has already entered?

Q4 - What do you think you should do if offense enters your heart?

#2 - If we don't forgive, god won't forgive you

Matthew 6:15 NLT But if you refuse to forgive others, your Father will not forgive your sins.

Q5 - Why do you think God won't forgive those who refuse to forgive others?

Q6 - Is there anyone that you can think of that you need to forgive today?

#3 - It will stop our prayers from being answered

Mark 11:24 NLT  I tell you, you can pray for anything, and if you believe that you’ve received it, it will be yours. 25 But when you are praying, first forgive anyone you are holding a grudge against, so that your Father in heaven will forgive your sins, too

Q7 - Why do you think Jesus taught us to forgive all let go of any grudges before we pray?

3 ways we can forgive others

#1 - remember what god has forgiven you for
#2 - Don't talk about the offense anymore
#3 - Love God's Word

Q8 - How can you begin applying these 3 steps this week?


I declare that I am Unoffendable! I will not allow offense to enter my heart. I forgive everyone who has hurt me, and will no longer hold onto it anymore. Thank you Jesus for forgiving me and helping me to forgive others. 


Avoid Gossiping! Some of the worst traps of offense is talking about it to others. Don't bring it up, and avoid talking about it if someone else brings it up. 

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